Chapter 1: Embracing Change

A long-time friend of mine, someone I've known for over three decades, never fails to maintain a light-hearted perspective on life. This is particularly true during my own journey of stepping away from my business to pursue writing—a new venture for me. Having previously owned a successful fashion store, I thought that starting anew with an investor would be straightforward.

However, I found myself hesitating to write until I faced two major strikes from the WGA and SAG-AFTRA, which ultimately pushed me out of my comfort zone. It felt a bit like being a new girl in junior high—awkward and uncertain. While I generally prefer solitude, as many writers do, the need to connect with the world became increasingly apparent.

Experiencing hunger—both literal and metaphorical—can be a strong motivator to engage with others and step beyond your comfort zone. My friend recognizes this tendency in me and patiently encourages me to take the plunge, akin to diving into a frigid pool.

For now, having my clothing store as a backup was a safety net, especially while my initial articles were earning a mere two pennies. However, I made the decision to close my store to rebuild my career in a different direction. This brings me to the crucial steps I have learned:

1. Quickly familiarize yourself with your new role.
2. Start taking risks by sharing your work.
3. Collaborate with others.
4. Seek advice and mentorship.
5. Pitch your ideas for potential investments.
6. Focus on serving others through your work, regardless of financial outcomes.

Reflecting on my early days as a business owner, I was advised to keep my beloved store in my small town—an establishment that couldn't be easily replicated. Ignoring that advice, I hastily pursued my dreams. Hence, my final piece of wisdom is this:

Listen to the advice around you and resist the urge to chase after what isn't yet fully formed.

If you disregard this counsel, ensure you have friends who uplift you and induce laughter during tough times. Rebuilding your vision can be challenging, but with the right support, it becomes manageable.

I wasn't mistaken in my pursuit; I merely attempted to venture forth without the security of a thriving business behind me. Even brilliant minds like Einstein faced hurdles before finding their footing.

Thus, my ultimate advice is to cherish friendships that keep your spirit buoyant, reminding you that there are no true mistakes—just varied paths toward success. This journey, though arduous, can ignite a deeper hunger for growth.

Chapter 2: Preparing for the Leap

Before making any significant career changes, it's crucial to equip yourself with the right knowledge and support. Here are a few preliminary steps:

This video, "5 Things to Do Before You Quit Your Job," offers vital tips for anyone considering a career change. It emphasizes the importance of preparation and strategic planning before taking the plunge.